Behind the Blooms: Life as a Florist During Wedding Season

Wedding season is where the magic happens at Petal and Blüm — and also where the coffee flows non-stop, the days start early, and the flower buckets seem to multiply overnight.

 From the outside, it might look like a dream — working with beautiful flowers all day, surrounded by roses, eucalyptus, and peonies. And yes, it is a dream… but it’s also a whirlwind of planning, early mornings, and creativity under pressure.

It All Starts Weeks Before💐

 A wedding bouquet isn’t just thrown together the day before. Weeks (and sometimes months) go into planning each arrangement. I meet with couples to talk about their vision — the colors, the style, the mood they want for their big day. Every bouquet tells a story, and my job is to make sure that story blooms in the most beautiful way possible.

Last year was full of so many magical moments - From Bree & Jordon’s forest, enchanted wedding — rich dark greens with hints of soft blue to capture the magic of the woods. Or Dori & Josh’s elegant June ceremony, where Playa Blanca roses and delicate baby’s breath looked like something out of a romantic movie (the rain made it even more magical)

The Flower Rush🤩

When the flowers arrive from my suppliers, it’s like Christmas morning — but with a lot more stems to trim. Every bloom is unpacked, cleaned, hydrated, and given a little love so it’s at its best for the wedding day. My workspace smells like a garden exploded, and there are petals everywhere.

 This is when my fur baby, Bella, often takes on her “supervisor” role. She lounges nearby with that I’m-the-boss expression, keeping an eye on every single stem (and occasionally stealing the spotlight in my behind-the-scenes photos).

The Late Nights & Early Mornings ⭐

The final days before a wedding are a blur. Sometimes I’m up past midnight finishing centerpieces, only to be back in the shop at sunrise making sure every detail is perfect. Coffee becomes a food group. Music plays in the background. And I get into a creative flow where the outside world disappears.

 The biggest wedding I’ve done to date — Erin & Connor’s all-white floral dream. My garage was full of blooms, and it felt like I was working in a cloud. Exhausting? Yes. Worth it? Absolutely- and a HUGE thanks to my wonderful husband, MIL & SIL for all your help!

The Best Part✨

For all the chaos, nothing beats the moment I hand a bride her bouquet. There’s always a smile — sometimes happy tears — and it’s in that moment I’m reminded why I do this. Flowers have a way of capturing love, joy, and memory all at once.

 Wedding season may be busy, messy, and exhausting… but it’s also my favorite time of year. Every wedding I’m a part of feels like an honor, and I wouldn’t trade these behind-the-blooms moments for anything.

Thank you for stepping behind the bloms with me. I cant wait to create more floral magic ❤️

Love, petals & non stop coffee,

Rebecca 🌸

Let’s Talk Bouquets — More Than Just Flowers

When people think of weddings, one of the first things they picture is the bouquet — but to me, it’s so much more than just a bundle of flowers. It’s a statement. A reflection of your story. A mix of texture, tone, movement, and magic that you’ll hold close during some of the most emotional moments of your life.

 At Petal & Blüm, bouquets are one of my favorite parts of wedding floral design. They’re personal. They’re powerful. And they’re where I get to blend your vision with my creativity in the most intentional way.

Photographer: Nikki Collette

💐 A Bouquet Should Feel Like You

 Some brides come to me with a full Pinterest board. Others send one photo and say, “Do your thing.” Either way, I always ask:

•  What’s the vibe of your day?

• What colors are you naturally drawn to?

• Do you want something classic, moody, whimsical, structured, or wildly romantic?

 Because the answer helps me figure out which blooms, textures, and shapes will make you feel like you. Whether it’s soft Playa Blanca roses, wild bits of baby’s breath, or unique pops like sea holly or veronica — each stem is chosen with intention.

Photographer: Nikki Collette

🌿 Creative Freedom = Magic

Some of my most loved bouquets have come from brides who said, “Surprise me.” When I get to choose blooms that are in season, full of personality, and curated for you — that’s when the real floral magic happens.

And I promise, I still work within your color palette and style. You just get a bouquet that feels elevated and one-of-a-kind

📸 Your Bouquet Is in Half Your Photos

Let’s be real — your bouquet gets its own close-up! You’ll see it in your getting-ready shots, ceremony moments, flat lays, and first look. That’s why I take extra time to make sure it flows with your dress, complements your backdrop, and brings a little wow to your hands.

Photographer: Nikki Collette

What’s really in a Petal and Blüm bouquet?

A whole lot of heart, a pinch of wild, and blooms that know how to make an entrance 🌸

Whether it’s for your big day or just because—it’s never just flowers. It’s your story, told in petals. 💐✨

 Love, petals & enjoy the little things

Rebecca  🌸

Your Wedding Should Feel Like a Fairytale… But Here’s the Truth

When you imagine your wedding day, it’s easy to picture something straight out of a storybook — soft music playing, everyone beaming with joy, your bouquet perfectly fluffed, and every detail going exactly to plan. But here’s the truth: real weddings rarely go perfectly. And that’s not a bad thing. In fact, it’s often the unplanned, the unexpected, and even the slightly unhinged moments that become the stories you’ll tell for years to come.

A Story I’ll Never Forget 💐

A week before my own wedding, my maid of honour broke her back. Yes — a full-on spinal fracture. She lives in BC, and we genuinely didn’t expect her to come. We told her to rest and recover, not to worry about the wedding, and to focus on healing. And then — the day before the wedding — she showed up. On crutches. Smiling. Ready to stand by my side, just like she promised. It wasn’t the moment I imagined, but it was one of the most meaningful parts of the entire day. Because love shows up — even if it’s bruised, broken, or limping a little. ❤️

 The Beauty in the Chaos 🌿

 As a florist, I’ve seen a lot behind the scenes: bouquets left in hotel rooms, ceremony chairs blown over by wind, centerpieces accidentally stolen by well-meaning grandmas. (True story.) But through it all — the vows are still said. The laughter still echoes. And the flowers still blum. So if your wedding day has a few hiccups? It’s okay. Those are the moments that make your day uniquely yours. Because the truth is, perfection doesn’t make a wedding magical — connection does.

I’d love to hear your most memorable wedding moment — the beautiful, the unexpected, or even the downright chaotic. Whether it happened at your own wedding or one you attended, share it in the comments below.

Let’s celebrate the real stories that make weddings unforgettable 💬💐

Love, petals & a little bit of chaos,

Rebecca 🌸